Monday, July 28, 2008

Beware: MAJOR sappiness ahead!

This post is liable to make some people nauseous it is so sappy. But I was thinking this morning of all the good things in my life, so I thought I'd write it down. Like so many people do, I often take things for granted. I can get so caught up in my worries, frustrations, and fears, sometimes forgetting to remember all the amazing blessings I do have. When I think about things that I am so incredibly thankful for, the first thing that comes to mind is my family.

I have the most amazing husband. He loves me despite my many shortcomings. I am in awe of his love for me and our children. He is so patient, honest, kind, humble, and strong. He sets an incredible example for our kids and an incredible example for me. I don't know anyone who works harder or is more of a master at balancing things in life. I feel so lucky to not only have him as my best friend and partner in life, but to watch my kids interact with the most extraordinary father possible.




So then, there are my kids. Holy cow did I hit the jackpot with them. I have such tremendous children. They teach me more than I teach them. My son is this amazing being, full of kindness, sensitivity, compassion, intelligence, and love for everyone. He is a thinker and doesn't forget a detail. He exemplifies what a good friend should be. He makes good choices, he works hard, he is open to new ideas, and loves to make people feel good. I am so proud of him and the young man he is becoming. My heart grows ten sizes when I think of the extraordinary person he is.


And then there is my daughter. She is a precious piece of art. She is so smart and witty already at six years old. She amazes me with her creativity and her confidence. She finds such pleasure in small things that can go unnoticed to most. She loves life, loves to laugh (even when no one else is laughing), loves to create, and loves to keep life simple. Her smile lights up a room and her independence lights up the world. My heart dances when I think of the beautiful person she is.

Then there is everyone else in my family. And I mean everyone. How I wound up so blessed with such tremendous people in my life is beyond me. My parents are phenomenal. Generous, loving, supportive, and fun. The same adjectives can be used to describe my in-laws. I still can't believe how much love there is between our two families. It really and truly is like one big family, as it should be. My parents and in-laws love each other and are such good friends. They all make sure we celebrate holidays and celebrations together. Even if it means getting on a plane and flying somewhere for Thanksgiving or a birthday. Hubby and I are constantly reminded of what is important in life by our parents example.


And did I mention I have a FABULOUS sister too! :-) She was my first baby. I, being the older sister, can't remember a time where I wouldn't step in front of a speeding bus for her. She is this smart, funny, strong woman who is beautiful on the inside and out. And then she married this very sweet guy who is caring, thoughtful, and kind and they had this precious, precious little girl who has red hair! I feel so fortunate to live so close to them and be able to watch my niece grow and be there to help out my sister when she needs me.

And if that isn't enough, I have extended family: grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, that are all tremendous people and so many friends that I consider my family as well. I am so blessed. When I think about my family; immediate, extended, and close friends, I know I will never be alone in life. There is always someone to love me, care about me, and support me. That is so overwhelming.

It's easy to get caught up in things that aren't going right, or things that you want to change. But it is so important to look at the big picture in life. As my grandpa says..."as long as you have your health and your family, you don't need anything else." One thing I will never be without is family.

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